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Welcome aboard this blog train – My Parenting Mantra. We have some awesome bloggers who are going to drive it for over a month. We promise to bring you some enriching contents that will add to your own parenting experience.
Thanks to Lata who blogs at http://www.fabulousmomlife.com for introducing me.
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Why not to label kids?

Kids are curious creatures. They want to know everything about everything. This is the stage of life where they learn and start to understand the simple things in life. And it’s our responsibility to nurture them and motivate them for all that they do. The brain of the child is in the development phase as the child is 5-6 years old.cycling with hubby
Every individual has his thought process set in the childhood. This is because the learning happens in the early years of life. Therefore we should never talk negatively with our children. We must never tell them they cannot do it, or taunt them if they’re unable to do such a simple task. Even if done in a playful way, the words get set into their minds and they start to believe in the same. That’s a major disadvantage because they would write off tasks and accept defeat even at times when they are capable of doing it. We need to take precautions in talking to them, and always remember to talk in a supportive manner, by which the confidence of the kids gets boosted and they feel like they can carry out any given tasks. This habit is essential to be inculcated in the children as once the child grows up, the chance of learning and adopting new perspectives towards life are scarce.

There are various ways by which we can teach them to live by a positive attitude.

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One would be to show them the way to do the task. We can help them in doing simple tasks just by showing them how to do it once. I did one post on Organizing Tips | This Will Help To Get Your Child Organized
Let’s take cycling, for example, if a parent takes the responsibility of teaching the child how to ride a bicycle, then the kids takes interest and learns faster. Similarly, if a parent doesn’t take the time to teach the kid, the kid may not develop an interest in cycling and hence would not like to ride a bike when he/she grows up.
All these factors depend entirely upon the economic situation of the family, and the family environment. We need to keep the environment fresh and stress-free in order for the kid to be open to learning new things.

Enjoyed reading My Parenting Mantra? Don’t forget to read what our next blogger mom Shalu who blogs at www.thedreamermum.com says about her Parenting Mantra. Also, do comment and let us know your opinions. We are all ears.

Author

Snehalata Jain, Mother, Lifestyle blogger, Traveler, Foodie and has a knack of parental advice. She loves to travel with her family and especially her daughter angel so that she can teach her kid the real life experience. A Micro Biologist and lecturer by profession, a full time mother and blogger by choice. She is a social media pro since 2012 handling over 100 profiles till now. Stepping to blog was her decision when she realized that whatever you do or experience, documentation makes it authentic. She loves photography and traveling and creating unique recipes which are healthy and tasty. She writes what she experience during her trips. About Blogsikka : It was just a quick decision to make my lifestyle blog , while searching for blog name. I wanted a name which is not related to specific things as my life is so dynamic that I can’t stick to one thing. I love travelling and eat delicacies from around the world. My love doesn’t stop here , infact I love to cook delicious thing which I see during my trips and replicate at home. Blogsikka is all about my own experiences of life and i write whatever i experience. And my backbone support is my husband DILKHUSH SHAH who is chartered accountant by profession and a hard core traveler by passion. He is the reason behind my all trips. DO FOLLOW MY BLOG : https://blogsikka.com and my all social media tabs

40 Comments

  1. Nice read! I loved that “not to label” principle. Will remember that for my kids ?

  2. Excellent parenting mantra. As you said, it’s our responsibility to provide them with healthy environment for their growth. Keep writing. Happy to join with you on this blog train.

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  5. I completely agree about the not to label a child motto. So so important. I have made mistakes but I try to be more mindful about what and how I talk in front of kids

  6. lovely pics dear and an awesome post.
    in todays world when kids are rowing up to be over sensitive and react over the edge
    positive attitude looks like most imp thing they need to have
    foloowing the tips

  7. Lovely posts Snehlata. Its amazing to see so many mum bloggers sharing their parenting mantra in such beautiful way. And I agree with you kids need not be labelled at all by us. Happy to be part of this train and journey along with you.

  8. Prisha Lalwani Reply

    Completely agree – a good stress free environment and parents interest and support help a child learn faster and better.

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  10. Superb post here, yes I completely to check our words before talking in-front of the kids. Their brain is like sponge, it absorbs everything it touches. nice read

  11. can I agree more! And I mean it is so important not to label them and providing them a healthy environment to learn and grow 🙂

  12. Oh yes!! Positivity is very important virtue to be inculcated in a child from a young age. Also they learn by observing. So practice before preaching is important too as you rightly pointed out.

  13. Loved your post. It is our duty to help our kids in learning and development

  14. Truly agree! Positive attitude is everything. I feel it’s underrated in todays world, children are growing into pessimistic adults unable to handle the pressures of everyday life. A positive attitude can help accept failures and be strong.

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  18. Kids are really a very important task to handle these days……….your post will surely help many

  19. Piyush Vibhandik Reply

    lovely Post. Thanks for sharing the tips. This is most important topic covered beautifully.

  20. Rajinder kaur Reply

    Very interesting topic …this world is filled with negativity, violence and suffering, a positive attitude can make life more manageable. Although it’s impossible to fully control life events, you can control your reactions to what happens. This attitude enables you and your children to develop the strength to deal with life’s challenges.

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