3 V’s of Effective Parenting

Parenting is a more committed and in-depth relationship that requires not only the contribution of the parents but also the children. The first step to becoming an effective parent is to learn and implement new things in your daily life and encourage your child to make an equal effort.

The A to Z Challenge by #BlogChatterA2Z, is giving me the opportunity to share some of the tricks that I have tried with my kids and it turns out to be great as well.

So, let’s start with the 3 V’s of effective parenting.

1. Validate

Everyone in this world needs validation from someone subconsciously. So, make sure to be the person where your kids ask you for validation and that will only happen if you always extend your hand for support. Kids are sensitive, and it is essential to handle them with utmost care.

2. Veracious

A parent should be a veracious person which means you should be always honest with your child. Because you would also expect the same from your child, isn’t it? So, why not start with yourself. Some truths can be harsh, but later on, they will be more comforting. Speak honestly and accept your mistakes if you made one.

3. Versatile

When you become a parent, everyone expects you to be a rounder in every task. And, trust me, you will learn eventually. I have learned to draw different cartoons to make healthy and yummiest snacks for my children. Sometimes, I am not that good at maths, but it’s okay. So, be patient and try to be as versatile as you can be.

So, have you enjoyed these amazing tips? Then share your thoughts in the comment section below. And, don’t forget to read my next article about this series.

Also, Read 3 U’s of effective parenting

3 U’s of Effective Parenting

Becoming an effective parent isn’t a one-time course that you will learn through a blog or a book, it is a whole life experience. You will learn new things and will make mistakes too. But, that’s completely okay and you don’t have to stress a lot about it because there is always room for improvement. That’s why I am trying to share my experience and learning in the form of tips in the A to Z Challenge by #BlogChatterA2Z. I am sure a lot of parents will gain benefits from this whole series of challenges.

So, now let’s start with another alphabet. And, it’s 3 U’s of effective parenting.

1. Uplift

As your kid will grow, people around them will always try to pull them down. But, if you have helped and uplifted them, then there are fewer chances for absorbing insecurities thrown by their peers or even elders. Push them to be better but don’t force them. They will surely seek your advice whenever they are feeling low.

2. Understand

Understanding comes when you spend time with your child. And, it has to be on both ways which means, your child also has to understand you to make the bond powerful. So, spending quality time will help you and your child to learn about each other.

3. Unique

You might often hear kids say that ‘You are not like other parents.’ This phrase can be good or bad depending upon the context. But it’s okay if you aren’t similar to other kids’ parents. You have a different uniqueness and quirk that makes you different yet supportive of your child. And don’t expect your child to be similar to other kids. Your kid has a different upbringing and they will surely be different. So, appreciate the uniqueness rather than complaining.

I hope these tips turn out to be helpful. Do let me know in the comment section if you want to read more about my parenting experience. Also, stay tuned for the next alphabet of becoming an effective parent. 

Also, Read 3 T’s of effective parenting

3 T’s of Effective Parenting

When someone asks me what is the most difficult job in the world and i.e., hands down to raising kids. Well, almost all the parents will agree with this opinion. Like everyone, I have learned new ways of becoming an effective parent with my experience and I can’t conclude that I have become one. But, I can some of the great tips that would make an effective parent on this parenting journey by #BlogchatterA2Z Challenge.

I have divided some of the tips to become an effective parent into the letter ‘T’. So, let’s go through the 3 T’s of effective parenting.

1. Thankful

We often teach our children to be kind and thankful to their peers, elders, and other living things and ask them to say thank you more often. But do you implement this advice to yourself as well? Saying ‘thank you to your child makes them happy and confident. It makes them feel that they are assisting you, even if they have done the slightest help.

2. Transform

Transformation is the only constant. As your child grows up, they have different emotional needs, and being a parent you need to understand it. Transforming your nature and mindset towards your child gives them the freedom to follow their heart. Of course, you can always guide them and share your opinions but don’t let them be in a cage.

3. Trustworthy

Trust is an important factor in every relationship and it has an equal and opposite reaction. The more you trust your kids, the more your kids will trust you. Don’t suffocate them with your values. Supporting them to be themselves and always be around them whenever they need you.

These are the simple yet effective tips that surely help you to make a connection for children. In the end, I will just conclude it by saying, let your kids bloom into a beautiful flower. They will learn new things and will surely make better decisions.

For any doubts or queries, you can drop a comment and share it, if you find this valuable.

Also, Read 3S’s of effective parenting

3S’s of Effective Parenting

Raising a happy and healthy child is one of the most challenging parts for parents. Parents are actually scared about how to raise their child, what would be the impact, etc. In this #BlogChatterA2Z Challenge, I am here to share my opinion on parenting. I have already shared a lot about effective parenting tips in my previous blogs.

Remember you don’t have to be a perfect parent but an effective parent. So today let us discuss the 3S’s of effective parenting. These 3’s will definitely help you in raising your child wisely.

3S’s Parenting

• Spiritual

Raising the spiritual child means teaching them how to follow the path of virtue. As a parent, you should clarify what spiritual values are and how they can. Spirituality, morality, and religious ethics are important for your child. You should make them learn about spiritual beliefs and ideologies. Children do have thousands of questions to make sure you are ready to answer all of them.

• Sensible

Teaching a child about responsibility can help your child grow sensible and dependent. Teach your child about gratitude, try out to make them learn through different chart patterns, what new things would they like to do? Try to understand them about changing him. Give your kids responsibility for getting under control but be with them to remind them how to do it. You can teach your child self-discipline. You can talk to them about saving money and long-term objectives.

• Soulful

Nurture your child’s soul, give your child the undivided attention. Encourage them with their opinion with different ideas. Treating them with kindness, makes them feel about how important they are to you. They want to be respected. Don’t try to mould your child, instead learn to encourage, engage and embrace them. They wanted to feel respected. So show them respect and how much you love them. Your child always wants to feel important.

These 3S’s of effective parenting will help you to be a good parent. Thanks #BlogChatterAtoZ Challenge for giving me an opportunity to share effective tips on parenting. Stay tuned with me for more such tips. So be ready to explore more about parenting. I hope these parenting tips are helping you in raising your child.

Also, Read 3R’s of Effective Parenting

3R’s of Effective Parenting

A genuine parent is the one who strives to make the best decision for their children. Your decision of reading this blog is the best because I will be sharing some beneficial tips on effective parenting with #BlogChatterA2Z. Successful parenting is not about achieving perfection but making your child learn.

We have covered a lot about effective parenting and now I am going to tell you how 3R’s will make parenting more effective. Are you ready? So let’s discuss the 3R’s of effective parenting!

• Relax

The first R is how to make your child learn about being relaxed. Teaching kids to be relaxed with mindfulness is nowadays important. Relaxation for the kids promotes health and well-being. Build the habit of exercising and yoga, give them mindfulness activities. Mindfulness activities can often build happiness, attention, and emotional control. Mental and physical activities can help them relax.

• Respect

Treating someone with respect means interacting with them in a way to show them love and care. When you respect someone, they will reciprocate with warm gestures. Sometimes it means doing things for them or listening to their instructions. Respect the physical boundaries, make decisions based on what’s right, not whom you like. Don’t forget to show respect for your decision.

• Reward

Reward means appreciation that will help you to know more about your child. Treating your child with rewards will help them to grow with confidence and accomplish their goals. You can motivate your kid with the right kind of praise and gifts. Reward reinforce the behavior you want, yes you are helping your child recognize their achievements. Appreciate your kids when they help each other, and they build a good character. 

So here all about 3R’s of effective parenting. The above-mentioned tips will help you so that you can create stronger bonds with your child.

Make sure you always connect with your child emotionally and mentally. Have you ever read my previous blogs? If not, then do give a read to the blogs that will help you to be a good parent. Do you have any doubts? Just drop a comment below.

 Also Read, 3Q’s of Effective Parenting

Three O’s of Effective Parenting

The ability to interact and engage with your child is part of an effective parenting lesson. Parenting is always about learning, it is never about being perfect. We have discussed a lot about how to become an effective parent. We started with A and now I am going to reveal three O’s of effective parenting. These tips are really helpful to raise your child.

You might have read my previous blogs, and I hope those were fruitful for you. So, today let us discuss the three O’s of effective parenting.

Optimistic

There are many reasons to encourage optimism in your child, whether it is about physical or mental well-being. Notice your child how he thinks? Make them learn about challenges. Optimism can create better relationships. Pay more attention to the positive things and make your child learn about them. Encourage your child to try something new every day. Be the child’s best role model. Make them learn about the challenges of life and how to face them.

Open-Minded and Open Hearted

Open Hearted and Open-Minded parents make a good relation with your child. Parents are typically more involved in supporting their children. Show them how much you love them and ask them about their problems. Be supportive and make them understand that you are with them. Let your child learn about sharing and caring. These good etiquettes will create a strong bond.   

Organize

Every parent wants their child to learn about organizing their things and life as well. Raising an organized child can be tough. You can help them in many ways like you can help them how to utilize the free time, help them in making their study schedule, a designated time for playing and give them a task to organize their room. You can teach them many things, remember don’t yell at them. Things will take time but they will learn soon.

So here is how these three O’s will help you to be a good parent. Are you trying these tips? Well! I hope these are helping you in raising your child. Make sure to follow these tips for effective parenting. If you have any doubts then you are free to ask us in the comment section!

Also Read, 3N’s of Effective Parenting