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3 U’s of Effective Parenting

Becoming an effective parent isn’t a one-time course that you will learn through a blog or a book, it is a whole life experience. You will learn new things and will make mistakes too. But, that’s completely okay and you don’t have to stress a lot about it because there is always room for improvement. That’s why I am trying to share my experience and learning in the form of tips in the A to Z Challenge by #BlogChatterA2Z. I am sure a lot of parents will gain benefits from this whole series of challenges.

So, now let’s start with another alphabet. And, it’s 3 U’s of effective parenting.

  1. Uplift

As your kid will grow, people around them will always try to pull them down. But, if you have helped and uplifted them, then there are fewer chances for absorbing insecurities thrown by their peers or even elders. Push them to be better but don’t force them. They will surely seek your advice whenever they are feeling low.

  1. Understand

Understanding comes when you spend time with your child. And, it has to be on both ways which means, your child also has to understand you to make the bond powerful. So, spending quality time will help you and your child to learn about each other.

  1. Unique

You might often hear kids say that ‘You are not like other parents.’ This phrase can be good or bad depending upon the context. But it’s okay if you aren’t similar to other kids’ parents. You have a different uniqueness and quirk that makes you different yet supportive of your child. And don’t expect your child to be similar to other kids. Your kid has a different upbringing and they will surely be different. So, appreciate the uniqueness rather than complaining.

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I hope these tips turn out to be helpful. Do let me know in the comment section if you want to read more about my parenting experience. Also, stay tuned for the next alphabet of becoming an effective parent. 

Also, Read 3 T’s of effective parenting

3 T’s of Effective Parenting

When someone asks me what is the most difficult job in the world and i.e., hands down to raising kids. Well, almost all the parents will agree with this opinion. Like everyone, I have learned new ways of becoming an effective parent with my experience and I can’t conclude that I have become one. But, I can some of the great tips that would make an effective parent on this parenting journey by #BlogchatterA2Z Challenge.

I have divided some of the tips to become an effective parent into the letter ‘T’. So, let’s go through the 3 T’s of effective parenting.

  1. Thankful

We often teach our children to be kind and thankful to their peers, elders, and other living things and ask them to say thank you more often. But do you implement this advice to yourself as well? Saying ‘thank you to your child makes them happy and confident. It makes them feel that they are assisting you, even if they have done the slightest help.

  1. Transform

Transformation is the only constant. As your child grows up, they have different emotional needs, and being a parent you need to understand it. Transforming your nature and mindset towards your child gives them the freedom to follow their heart. Of course, you can always guide them and share your opinions but don’t let them be in a cage.

  1. Trustworthy

Trust is an important factor in every relationship and it has an equal and opposite reaction. The more you trust your kids, the more your kids will trust you. Don’t suffocate them with your values. Supporting them to be themselves and always be around them whenever they need you.

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These are the simple yet effective tips that surely help you to make a connection for children. In the end, I will just conclude it by saying, let your kids bloom into a beautiful flower. They will learn new things and will surely make better decisions.

For any doubts or queries, you can drop a comment and share it, if you find this valuable.

Also, Read 3S’s of effective parenting

 

3S’s of Effective Parenting

Raising a happy and healthy child is one of the most challenging parts for parents. Parents are actually scared about how to raise their child, what would be the impact, etc. In this #BlogChatterA2Z Challenge, I am here to share my opinion on parenting. I have already shared a lot about effective parenting tips in my previous blogs.

Remember you don’t have to be a perfect parent but an effective parent. So today let us discuss the 3S’s of effective parenting. These 3’s will definitely help you in raising your child wisely.

3S’s Parenting

  • Spiritual

Raising the spiritual child means teaching them how to follow the path of virtue. As a parent, you should clarify what spiritual values are and how they can. Spirituality, morality, and religious ethics are important for your child. You should make them learn about spiritual beliefs and ideologies. Children do have thousands of questions to make sure you are ready to answer all of them.

  • Sensible

Teaching a child about responsibility can help your child grow sensible and dependent. Teach your child about gratitude, try out to make them learn through different chart patterns, what new things would they like to do? Try to understand them about changing him. Give your kids responsibility for getting under control but be with them to remind them how to do it. You can teach your child self-discipline. You can talk to them about saving money and long-term objectives.

  • Soulful

Nurture your child’s soul, give your child the undivided attention. Encourage them with their opinion with different ideas. Treating them with kindness, makes them feel about how important they are to you. They want to be respected. Don’t try to mould your child, instead learn to encourage, engage and embrace them. They wanted to feel respected. So show them respect and how much you love them. Your child always wants to feel important.

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These 3S’s of effective parenting will help you to be a good parent. Thanks #BlogChatterAtoZ Challenge for giving me an opportunity to share effective tips on parenting. Stay tuned with me for more such tips. So be ready to explore more about parenting. I hope these parenting tips are helping you in raising your child.

Also, Read 3R’s of Effective Parenting

3R’s of Effective Parenting

A genuine parent is the one who strives to make the best decision for their children. Your decision of reading this blog is the best because I will be sharing some beneficial tips on effective parenting with #BlogChatterA2Z. Successful parenting is not about achieving perfection but making your child learn.

We have covered a lot about effective parenting and now I am going to tell you how 3R’s will make parenting more effective. Are you ready? So let’s discuss the 3R’s of effective parenting!

  • Relax

The first R is how to make your child learn about being relaxed. Teaching kids to be relaxed with mindfulness is nowadays important. Relaxation for the kids promotes health and well-being. Build the habit of exercising and yoga, give them mindfulness activities. Mindfulness activities can often build happiness, attention, and emotional control. Mental and physical activities can help them relax.

  • Respect

Treating someone with respect means interacting with them in a way to show them love and care. When you respect someone, they will reciprocate with warm gestures. Sometimes it means doing things for them or listening to their instructions. Respect the physical boundaries, make decisions based on what’s right, not whom you like. Don’t forget to show respect for your decision.

  • Reward

Reward means appreciation that will help you to know more about your child. Treating your child with rewards will help them to grow with confidence and accomplish their goals. You can motivate your kid with the right kind of praise and gifts. Reward reinforce the behavior you want, yes you are helping your child recognize their achievements. Appreciate your kids when they help each other, and they build a good character. 

So here all about 3R’s of effective parenting. The above-mentioned tips will help you so that you can create stronger bonds with your child.

Make sure you always connect with your child emotionally and mentally. Have you ever read my previous blogs? If not, then do give a read to the blogs that will help you to be a good parent. Do you have any doubts? Just drop a comment below.

 Also Read, 3Q’s of Effective Parenting

3Q’s of Effective Parenting

I am again back with some amazing tips and tricks on how to become an effective parent. It is time to reveal the 3Q’s of effective parenting that will help you to be a great parent. You might have read some of my previous blogs on parenting. If not then do give them a read. You and your child share a special bond and trust me you have to make this bond stronger. Isn’t it? These tips will definitely help you.

So let us discuss the 3Q’s that will help you in parenting. 

  • Quick-Witted

Being quick-witted helps to analyze your child’s behaviour and how they are going to behave in a particular situation. Spending more time with help you to make quick-witted and knowing their action. You have to be prepared for shaping up their nature or interest. Believe in them and praise their efforts for developing the mindset. This will help them in developing their mind. Remember don’t overprotect them and set them free.

  • Quiet

Heated Arguments are not only worse for you but also for your kids too. Teach your child not to be stubborn, and how to be calm after the argument. Make them learn how to stay calm in tough situations. Yelling on your kids will not work, remember they are watching you and they learn from you. So, be their role model and handle them patiently.

  • Quirky

Help your child to understand the emotional changes. Being too strict and serious in front of your kids can change your bond with them. Show them that they can share anything with you, help them, play with them, teach them, and be a part of their discussion. Underestimating them will demotivate them. Be friends with them. Kids are always in search of friends and trust me you can be their best friend.

So here is all about the Alphabet Q. The above-mentioned effective parenting tips have helped many people. So now it is your turn to create a stronger bond with your child.

Make sure that you connect with your child emotionally and mentally. If you haven’t read my previous blogs with #BlogChatterAtoZ then gives them a read. Still, have doubts? Don’t worry just drop a comment below!

Also, Read 3P’s of Effective Parenting

3P’s of Effective Parenting

Parenting has different aspects and to understand this one needs to know about the perspective of parenting. I am here to share some good parenting tips with you. We have covered a lot about parenting. We have started with A and now it is time to discuss the 3P’s of effective parenting with #ChatterBlogAtoZ. Trust me these tips are really helpful. It doesn’t matter whether you are a new parent or not. This blog will definitely help you!

Let’s learn together about how to be a good parent!

 Polite

The first P teaches us about being polite. It has said that a child learns from their parents. So, you have to be polite with everyone around you and that’s how you will be able to teach your kids to be polite with their peers, elder, and animals as well. Make them learn about etiquettes, table manners, etc. Polite behavior will help them in social development. Praise them whenever they implement good manners in their daily routine.

Proactive

Strengthen your bond with your child. Teach them in the best way about being proactive. Just demonstrate it in your own life. Make them learn about how to deal with a situation proactively. Help your child to conquer self-destructive behaviour and build, but be sure to have patience. Kids do have many questions and anyhow you have to answer them politely. Make them learn how to react to different situations.

Productive

As a parent, you definitely have the power to influence your kids towards success. We’re not talking about pushing them too far. We all want to help them in their success. You can teach them about specific skills, help them in visualizing what interests them more. Inspire them with creativity, communicate with them and help them to enhance their communication skills. Teach them how to utilize their leisure time. This is how you can help your child to be productive.

So here we have discussed the 3P’s of effective parenting. These tips I have implemented with my two kids! I can definitely say this will help you in raising your child better.  If you have not started reading my blogs then let me tell you, you have missed a lot! I hope you will love this series of A to Z challenges. 

Also, Read Three O’s of Effective Parenting

Three O’s of Effective Parenting

The ability to interact and engage with your child is part of an effective parenting lesson. Parenting is always about learning, it is never about being perfect. We have discussed a lot about how to become an effective parent. We started with A and now I am going to reveal three O’s of effective parenting. These tips are really helpful to raise your child.

You might have read my previous blogs, and I hope those were fruitful for you. So, today let us discuss the three O’s of effective parenting.

Optimistic

There are many reasons to encourage optimism in your child, whether it is about physical or mental well-being. Notice your child how he thinks? Make them learn about challenges. Optimism can create better relationships. Pay more attention to the positive things and make your child learn about them. Encourage your child to try something new every day. Be the child’s best role model. Make them learn about the challenges of life and how to face them.

Open-Minded and Open Hearted

Open Hearted and Open-Minded parents make a good relation with your child. Parents are typically more involved in supporting their children. Show them how much you love them and ask them about their problems. Be supportive and make them understand that you are with them. Let your child learn about sharing and caring. These good etiquettes will create a strong bond.   

Organize

Every parent wants their child to learn about organizing their things and life as well. Raising an organized child can be tough. You can help them in many ways like you can help them how to utilize the free time, help them in making their study schedule, a designated time for playing and give them a task to organize their room. You can teach them many things, remember don’t yell at them. Things will take time but they will learn soon.

So here is how these three O’s will help you to be a good parent. Are you trying these tips? Well! I hope these are helping you in raising your child. Make sure to follow these tips for effective parenting. If you have any doubts then you are free to ask us in the comment section!

Also Read, 3N’s of Effective Parenting

Parenting Tips

I hope the effective parenting tips are helping you grow in your parenting journey. Have you ever spent time thinking about how you are doing as a parent? Don’t worry these tips will surely help you out. I have started with the alphabet A and now we have come a long way with the Alphabet. #BlogChatterAtoZ Challenge helped me to share my personal tips with you.

So, today we will be discussing 3N’s of Effective Parenting. Are you ready? If you have missed any of my blog on parenting tips then don’t forget to give it a read!

3N’s of Effective Parenting

Nurture

Be aware of the stages when your child starts developing insecurities, some are born with low self-esteem as compared to others. You have to help them with physical and emotional needs. Encourage them to express their feelings, enhance knowledge and make them learn about mutual respect and truth. Love them unconditionally, remember don’t compare them with others, and accept them for who they are. Do not expect your child to be perfect. Make them learn about happiness, in this way you can help your child.

Notice

Noticing them doesn’t mean keeping track of them every time. You just have to be sure that you are acknowledging them for their good deeds and teaching them the difference between right and wrong. When you notice your child doing something helpful and nice, appreciate them for that. It is a great way to reinforce good behaviour. The positive attention will make them feel confident and will try to share things with you.

Nourish

You are definitely not alone when you talk about giving nutrition to your child. Just because your child refuses the food, don’t give up. Make them understand the nutritional value of the food and how does the nutritious food will help them grow better. Innovation attracts kids, innovate your food, try experimenting it. Never turn their mealtime into a battle of wills. Respect their appetite and make them stick to the routine. Be patient with new food that you’ll be making them eat.

So, that’s all! We have finally ended the 3N’s of effective parenting. I hope this helped you in raising your child. If you love my tips then stay tuned with me for more such blogs. If you have any doubts then don’t hesitate to ask me in the comment section.

Also, Read 3M’s of an Effective Parenting

3M’s of Effective Parenting

I am here again with some interesting tips to learn together about good parenting. Have you checked my previous blogs where I have covered a lot about being good parents? So, today I will be revealing the next Alphabet of the #BlogChatterAtoZ Challenge. Are you ready to learn the three 3M’s of effective parenting?

Good parenting helps foster honesty, self-control, cooperation, cheerfulness, etc. So if you are trying to be a good parent then this blog is for you! Let’s start learning:

  1.   Meditate with them

Your kids might get tired and children of all ages need moments where they can take out some time to relax. You can definitely give them this opportunity. Meditation is the best chance that helps them to work more effectively. Meditate with them and make them understand how it works. Try a light discussion of various things that will make them happy. Teach them how meditation can help them in their learning. This will help you to create a strong bond.

  1.   Motivate them

Let your children know that you understand them. Tell them how great they are doing in their studies. The sense of connection that a parent can make with their child is priceless. Praise your kids when they make some efforts. Inspire them, encourage them with the expression and their opinions, talk about what they feel, and appreciate them in their decision making. Dismiss their self-doubts and fear that they have. Accept them the way they are, this will help you and your kid to make a stronger bond.

  1.   Mentor

Spend quality time with them and get to know what they think and how you can help them. This will benefit you in better interaction with your child. Be firm, but friendly your child needs support at this age. Discuss their problems, help them in solving their problems. Your child will feel more comfortable and confident. The relationship will be based on mutual trust.

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So here we have discussed the 3M’s that will help you in effective parenting. Apply these learning parts in your daily routine with your child. Do let me know in the comments below if you have any questions or experience to share.

Also, Read 3L’s of an Effective Parenting

3L’s of an Effective Parenting

Becoming a parent ensures you that you’ll make mistakes. Isn’t it? But your goal is to try to be the ideal parent. There is no perfect word when you say parenting, but you should be an effective parent. I have already shared many tips for effective parenting starting from A with #BlogChatterAtoZ Challenge. So, today I will be revealing the tips with the Alphabet L, 3L’s of an Effective Parenting. Let us learn together how to be a good parent.

Love them Unconditionally

Loving unconditionally means showing your child that you are accepting them the way they are. When your child will feel absolute love then he’ll be more likely to blossom and won’t hesitate in sharing something with you. The unconditional love between you and your children will make your bond more solid. Never underestimate them and appreciate their weakness, you can turn their insecurities into their strength. The love of parents makes the child feel secure and accepted. Love your child unconditionally no matter what!

Leisure Time is essential

Leisure time means to serve your child as a parent. Activities with your kid are important. You know your child better than anyone else, so communicate with them, help them and play with them. Try to learn together and teach them wherever they are going wrong. Spending time with your kids is important. Spend some good time with them and make sure to teach them about new challenges and ideas.

Be Loyal

Loyalty is important for your kids. It teaches them to keep their word and surround them with positivity. Loyalty is an attachment that results in actions towards each other. Make them understand that loyalty is not only protects the connection but also strengthens them. Don’t compare your child and prioritize them. Teach your child to serve one another. Let them learn why loyalty matters and how it brings a major impact in life.

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So we have discussed a lot about being an effective parent. These three L’s will help you to be a good parent. I hope your learning will give you a fruitful result. Stay tuned with me for more tips on how to be an effective parent. If you have any doubts then you can drop a comment.

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